Friday, April 13, 2012

Senior Trip


    Last week, April 1-7, I went on a trip with the senior adults from Willowbrook Baptist Church.  We loaded on the bus on Palm Sunday morning and headed to DC.  We had lunch at Cracker Barrel and dinner at Pic-A-Dilly.  Looking out the window at God's country was just amazing.  The rolling hills and the old barns. We stopped in Wythevelle for the night.  Earlene and I shared a room.   I think we were both tired.  It did not take long for us to fall asleep.

    Monday we got up early and headed the rest of the way to DC.  Arriving in the early afternoon we went to the Smithsonian Air and Space Museum.  I enjoyed the Early Flight exhibit and the planets room.  I wish my friend Earlene had been able to keep up with me on this.  I did walk into the cockpit of a Pan Am airplane and that was cool to see how far airplanes have come.

    Tuesday we went to Arlington Cemetery.  That was very sobering to me.  It brought tears to think about the men and women that have paid the ultimate price for my freedom.  Some of the soldiers that are buried there were among the elite.  President Kennedy, Audie Murphy (the most decorated soldier), the monuments for the Challenger Space Shuttle accident victims. 
I could not help but want to go see DanDad's and Honey's graves.  Time did not allow for that.  We did break off and go see a grave of a fellow Willowbrooker, Billy.  I was amazed to see a three star generals funeral and to find out that the funeral for a general and a private are the same.  While there at the cemetery I thought about the week it was.  Easter week.  Wow the price my Savior paid for me to have freedom in me is unbelievable.  The Father, my God, came to earth in the form of a baby.  Lived a perfect flawless life here on earth.  Spent years trying to teach us about Him.  Suffered a brutal night and day of torture and hung on a cross. With total love gave His life for every person on earth past, present and future.  Died and was buried.  Three days later he rose again and is now my living savior.  My connection to God.  The only path.  Wow. 
   
 At the unknown soldiers grave we watched the guard march back and forth.  21 steps, 21 second pause.  21 steps back, 21 second pause.  Then on the hour, every hour, there is a changing of the guard.  That was very cool to see.  The detail that they have to go through.  And to wear a belt that is 2 notch's to tight was unreal.  The look so neat and clean.  I am both saddened and also happy for the families that there will never be another unknown soldier.  With DNA testing that is no longer possible.  In fact the Vietnam soldier that was buried here was recently identified and returned to the family for burial.


After lunch at the old post office, we went to the World War II Memorial.  I loved this memorial.  It was so peaceful and very elegant.  I loved the simplicity of the stones with wreaths on them around the perimeter, the water fountains in the middle and the gates representing the two oceans that we entered the war from.  The wall of stars that represented the men and women who gave their lives for freedom was impressive.

Then the Korean War Memorial.  Life size steel men replicating the trek that we made back and forth along the 38th cordon.  19 statues with reflections in the wall of faces to add up to 38.





The Vietnam Memorial.  Not as impressed with this monument as I thought I would be.  I know people that fought in this war.  I saw first hand my friends that lost legs, arms, sanity because of this war.  I did not see this as our guide described it.  A knife going into the ground dividing us.




The Lincoln Memorial.  I wish I could have seen this at night.  There were so many people and so little time to see this.  The Civil war is my favorite era to study and read about.  I love the costumes and the lifestyle.


The Jefferson Memorial.  What a beautiful building this was.  15 minutes just is not enough time!


The World War I Memorial.  We drove by this one. 


Dinner at Union Station.  We had a little down time here to just relax.  Dinner was good and we all were ready to head back to the hotel for the night.

Wednesday we went to Mount Vernon. 


We spent half a day there. 

We toured the mansion, the gardens and hiked down to the wharf. 

We had lunch at the restaurant that served typical colonial food.  I had the meat pie.  Yum.






 After lunch we went to George Washington's tomb and we as a church were able to lay a wreath on the grave. 

It was a special moment for all these men.  I could see their pride for the time they served this country and the price they were willing to pay for freedom.  Some how this needs to be instilled in every American!


We got the opportunity to stop at the Marine Memorial and took a semi group picture.  There were a few that choose to stay on the bus.  We again only had 15 minutes to run around it.  We debated on how many soldiers there were.  Would have made sense to me to have 5 one for each branch of the military but there were 6.

Thursday




We made our way upstairs to see the animal photo contest winners for this year.  This is where we caught up with some of our friends.  We took a moment to talk and then over to see The Hope Diamond. 






We made our way over to the American History Museum and found GI Joe.  Amazing that we found him so fast.  We had lunch down stairs.  The went to the top floor to go see the First Ladies Ball dresses.  They were all so beautiful.  I would have hated to give up my dress to a museum.    We finished out the museum looking at the cars and trains.



Dinner was at Pier 7 on the water.  The food was top notch.  First course was a fruit plate that was yummy.  Then a salad came.  After that I had the steaks with broccoli.  Dessert was a cake with ice cream in it with strawberries on top.  Yum. 



After dinner we went to the Kennedy Center for the a play.  We laughed so hard!  The view form the top of the Kennedy Center was amazing.

Friday morning we toured the Capital Building.  I was surprised by how big the building was and how small it felt.  The history that is in that building was overwhelming.  The people who had a dreams and never let anything stand in there way.  So many of them put God first and relied on Him for their strength.

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Growing to fast

Just have to say... He is growing to fast.

6 months old

Monday, March 26, 2012

A Note About the Quilt

I finished the quilt and Leslie picked it up on Friday.  She was so excited to get it to the hospital to show her dad.  On Saturday evening Leslie's dad, Steve, passed away.  I am so glad that I got the quilt done before he went to meet the Lord.  Thank you Steve for letting me be a glimpse of your life.

St Patty's Day Celebration

     For St Patty's Day I decided to make a "traditional Irish dinner" and invite some friends over. 
    I have always wanted to entertain like my parents did.  Mom sure could cook. 
     I bought green plates and made napkins from some scraps to decorate the table.  I got out my grandmother Shiff's salad bowls.
    Then I looked though Pinterest and found some recipes "Irished" enchiladas and chocolate chip cookie cake. I also served a green salad and Toni brought Waldorf salad.  The enchilada recipe I modified to be more like Pam Worley's recipe.  I added cream to the recipe.  Then I got the spinach shells and cut them like a three leaf clover.  The cake was amazing.
I invited two couples over for the dinner Liz & Michael and Toni & Dean.  We sat at the table and laughed and talked for hours and had a bunch of fun.  We need to do that again.

Sunday, March 18, 2012

The Quilt Project

 I saw one day in late December on facebook that Leslie was looking for someone to fix a quilt of her dads. I posted that I would fix it for her. A few weeks later she brought the quilt in. It was in bad shape. I thought to myself this is beyond repair. After thinking about it for several days I decided to applique stars over the worst ones. I have had the quilt since January. Today I finished it!



Cutting the strips

the stars sewn togehter


applying the stars



applying more stars

almost done

Finished


5 Generations

Top: Marvin Twamley Middle: Darrin Dahlenburg, Joshua Barrett Leskowsky, Fred Dahlenburg  Bottom: David Sargent


Sunday we had everybody here from Nashville.  Darrin's Grandpa and Grandma Twamley from Montaina, Darrin's parents Fred and Camille Dahlenburg from Nashville, David and Bobby Sue and David brought his son JBear.  That made 5 generations of men.

Friday, February 17, 2012

A Plate Full

As you know I am a bit of a control freak. Ok so that might be a little mild. I have to feel as if I am in control. This carries through everything I do: mother, wife, boss, employee, and friend - everything. God has been changing things about me slowly and I appreciate that. I still get to feel in control.


Everything about my Job was in my mind out of control and everything in my personal life was out of control. Who ever said that God doesn’t put more on your plate than you can handle is crazy. God loads our plate until we realize we can’t handle it and we need Him.
(2 Corinthians 1:8b We were under great pressure, far beyond our ability to endure, so that we despaired even of life.)
Not trusting God with any of the details I went into overload. For months I knew I was “losing my job” and someone else was going to be telling me how to do things. Not knowing what that was going to look like I lived in fear of ALL the worst case scenarios ie. I would lose my job, become a copy girl, be not important, and so on and so on.
(I Peter 5:7 Casting all your care upon Him; for He cares for you.)

Then with cancer running in the family and my sister just facing breast cancer that is a fear for me. Trish had told me that the way she found hers is because of an inverted nipple. I woke up in January with the same problem. I scheduled a mammogram and they called me back for a second one and a sonogram. Three days later I am informed I need to have a MRI.
(the only thing we have to fear is fear itself – Franklin D. Roosevelt)

Trying to handle all this by myself (because I am a control freak) I lived in fear and that fear transformed into a person that treated others terrible to try to feel better about myself. Not even realizing I had began to really mistreat my assistant. Just like all other sins you do not choose to be in the middle of it on purpose. I slowly crossed line after line until I had reached the very middle of where I was.

As all good Christian should do she confronted me. I did not like it at all. I had to apologize and then look at myself and the ugly person I had become. Then the amazing grace of God steps in. I looked at who I was and who I wanted to be. I looked at why I was acting the way I was acting. I did not like that I was using the cutting words that my mother would use. Those words had hurt me so many times growing up.
(1 Peter 5:7 Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you)

I could no longer control anything! Life was in such disarray at least in my brain. To many I don’t knows!
I had to let God be in control at this point. I had to surrender all to Him. I had no choice but to believe what He had told me. I had to believe in my heart and trust on faith that God was going to keep His word.
(Since He did not spare even His own Son for us but gave Him up for us all, won't He also surely give us everything else? Romans 8:32 )

I have been set free from the need to control. I am set free in my Savior.

Just as God had promised…. He came through. I am a different person than I was . I am cancer free. I have a new “boss” (really just someone with input to what I do, more like a design team)

I know I will have moments that will challenge me not to take control again. But I now have history to fall back on to help me to let go.